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Family of Origin Exploration for the Therapist: How To Overcome Your Fears

October 18, 2016 Ili Rivera Walter, PhD, LMFT
Family of Origin Exploration for the Therapist | How To Overcome Your Fears

Although I am writing this series for therapists, the truth is, when it comes to facing our families, just as when it comes to our personal change, we are only human--we are the same as our clients. This is one of the benefits of our own family of origin (FOO) exploration:  We can confidently ask clients to examine their histories, because we have, and we know what it takes.

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Family of Origin Exploration for The Therapist: Why it Matters, and Its Benefits

October 4, 2016 Ili Rivera Walter, PhD, LMFT
Family of origin exploration for the therapist

In today’s post, I explain how I learned about and implemented family of origin (FOO) exploration and its resulting impact on my relationships. I also present background on the idea of FOO exploration for therapists, as well as its benefits.

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Solution-Focused Brief Therapy Client Types, and Their Relevance To Every Session

September 27, 2016 Ili Rivera Walter, PhD, LMFT
Solution Focused Brief Therapy Client Types | Family Therapy Basics

In her 1989 article, Of Visitors, Complainants, and Customers, Insoo Kim Berg details three types of “client-therapist relationships” (p. 21). Her wording is significant, because she is not labeling clients; she is describing them in terms of their relationship to the therapist, the process of therapy, and the problem. These three relationships have undergirded Solution-Focused Brief Therapy theory and interventions over the years, although they are not consistently discussed in newer works. The client relationship types are widely applicable to therapy, regardless of theoretical orientation, making them one of the most useful concepts in marriage and family therapy.

In this post, I present a review of these client types, and I explain their relevance to and usefulness for all therapeutic sessions.

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